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A Turkish proverb says, “A fool may throw a stone into a well that a hundred wise men cannot pull out.” Inspired by this, one observation is, “One lie cannot be undone by forty truths.” Both express that a single careless act can have severe consequences, even with effort and truth. They highlight the asymmetry between destruction and repair, deception and truth.
The first proverb suggests reckless actions can create problems even the wisest struggle to fix. The metaphor of the stone in the well emphasizes permanence and unintended consequences.
The second saying shifts the focus to honesty and deception. A single lie, once spoken, alters perception and trust, making it difficult to correct with numerous truths. Like the stone in the well, the damage lingers.
Both reflect human nature: words and actions, especially careless ones, can have a greater impact than we anticipate. Even wisdom and truth have limits in undoing past mistakes.
From a philosophical perspective, these expressions address the irreversibility of certain actions and the asymmetry between harm and repair. They touch on ethics, epistemology, and human nature.
This aligns with Hannah Arendt’s (Tömmel & d’Entreves, 2025) concept of irreversibility, where actions have a life of their own beyond their originator. A fool’s action, like throwing a stone or telling a lie, sets something in motion that can’t be undone.
The second expression, “One lie cannot be undone by forty truths,” highlights the fragility of trust in human relationships. In Kantian ethics, (Johnson & Cureton, 2024) truthfulness is a moral imperative, as deception corrupts moral interaction. A single lie disrupts reality and makes it difficult to restore trust with repeated truths.
Nietzsche also explored this idea, arguing that truth is psychological and social. Once a lie is introduced, it reshapes perception and makes reality unstable (Nietzsche, 2024) and (Nietzsche, 2018). The struggle to restore trust involves addressing the distortion, not just offering more truth. (Nietzsche, 2010) and (Nietzsche, 2017)
Both sayings suggest the limits of wisdom. Even the wise are powerless against certain forms of foolishness. The assumption that knowledge and truth can always correct falsehoods is an illusion. Wisdom can only mitigate consequences, not erase them. True wisdom may lie in recognizing that some things, once done, can’t be undone.
Ultimately, responsibility lies in preventing harm before it occurs. Once the stone is in the well or the lie is spoken, the damage is done. This aligns with Buddhist and Stoic philosophies, which emphasize mindfulness in action and speech, understanding that careless or dishonest actions can create suffering beyond our control.
A single lie lingers, no matter how many truths try to wash it away.